“The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others” – Mahatma Ghandi

Serving the community has always been something that I have been into. Whether it be when I’m at home or school I live doing service for others. Even as a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. where service is one of our main focuses, it has helped me realize that even beyond DST, I wholeheartedly love this! Recently I gave been doing quite a bit a service and I really love it. I volunteered with some other young ladies from my school (Delaware State University) at the Food Bank of Delaware to prepare weekend meals for underprivileged children, about two weeks ago I went to St. John’s Lutheran School in Dover,DE to help paint fences on the kids playground and just today I went to clean my sorority’s local Adopt-a-Highway!

Check me out!

Food Bank of Delaware

St. John’s Lutheran School


Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc Adopt-a-Highway Cleanup

The service never stops!!!

“Style Has No Size”

I really love things like this, me being a plus sized young woman, I love to see that we are being empowered and in some aspects finally being accepted. Power to the Plus Sizers!


Models 1+ Campaign photo. Click photo for more information.


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Self Proclaimed Feminist

I am currently taking a feminism class at my University, Women, Feminism, & the Media, and I am so intrigued by how much of a feminist I actually am.

So I originally took this class as an elective for my senior year, just to fill my schedule. But when the semester started I was shocked at how interested I was in the feminist world. A lot of people when I tell them I take this course, they think it is a bra-burning, man-hater, female kumbaya class. And it is the total opposite! My instructor, is a well rounded, African American woman, woman who has literally given all the sides of feminism during the course of this class, and I love it! I also love that we have 3 males in the class, that’s always fun when we start in class discussions.


For a recent assignment we had to watch a video about second wave feminism and had to respond on how we plan to continue to live in a third wave feminist era. 

Here’s the video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uxX0_B9Eq6o

My response was: “As the semester comes to a close, I do think of myself as a feminist. I think even before the course I was always about the empowerment of women, positive images of women, and women being able to any and everyone, that anyone else can do. I think what I have learned most from the class is that feminism and being a feminist isn’t all about burning bras, protesting, and being anti-man; but simply standing for what you believe women are and what women can be. In this third wave of feminism I think that I will continue to help push for empowerment and continue to promote what i believe in. But also will try to help my generation and others learn that feminism and being empowered is more than being naked with a gun, or having to pose nude, or over embracing your sexuality. You can be empowered in a million different ways.”

So Alexis a self proclaimed feminist: Yes. Alexis a man hating bra burner: far from it!